sweet n true lines for her...

Wen I get angry... I want u to try convince me back... Wen I feel sad.. I wsh u wud try to make me smile...

Wen I lose hope I need u to support me.... n make me strong...

Wen I act possessive I need u to calm me down.. n handle me with maturity.....

Wen I luv u... I wish u to luv me back evn more....

I knw lyf n luv is not abt fairytales...bu t life is not evn a nightmare honey.... Ihad few dreams too about U & ME.. n dis feeling of luv... I know I shud act mature n sensible.. .may b lttle more practical....

but I thought U luv ME & My"Innocence" too...♥

Wen I get angry... I want u to try convince me back...

Wen I feel sad.. I wsh u wud try to make me smile...

Wen I lose hope I need u to support me.... n make me strong...

Wen I act possessive I need u to calm me down.. n handle me with maturity.....

Wen I luv u... I wish u to luv me back evn more....

I knw lyf n luv is not abt fairytales...bu t life is not evn a nightmare honey.... Ihad few dreams too about U & ME.. n dis feeling of luv... I know I shud act mature n sensible.. .may b lttle more practical....

but I thought U luv ME & My"Innocence" too...♥

LINES BY HEART... JUST FOR YOU JAAN...♥♥♥

♥••♥ Aisa Nahi Ki Tujh Se Muhabbat Nahi Humain ♥••♥
♥••♥ Gum Roz Roz Sehne Ki Aadat Nahi Humain ♥••♥


♥••♥ Har Bar Tere Samne Sar Ko Jhooka Liya ♥••♥

♥••♥ Aur Phir Bhi Dekh Tujh Se Shikaayat Nahi Humain ♥••♥

♥••♥ Tu Aitebar Kar Ke Tujhe Chahate Hain Hum ♥••♥
♥••♥ Tere Siwa Kisi Ki Bhi Chahat Nahi Humain ♥••♥

♥••♥ Hum Jante Hain Tum Tanha Nahi Hamare Bin ♥••♥
♥••♥ Auron Se Poochhne Ki Zaroorat Nahi Humain ♥••♥

♥••♥ Kaise Rahenge Bin Tere Ab Baat Maan Le ♥••♥
♥••♥ Tere Bagair Rahne Ki Ab Aadat Nahi Humain ♥••♥

It's so curious:  one can resist
tears and 'behave' very well in
the hardest hours of grief.  But
then someone makes you a
friendly sign behind a window,
or one notices that a flower that
was in bud only yesterday has
suddenly blossomed, or a letter
slips from a drawer... and
everything collapses.

LOVE...

LOVE…

I LOVE THE CONCEPT OF LOVE
TO BE IN LOVE
TO FEEL LOVE

BUT I HAVE ABUSED THE WORD OF LOVE
USED THE ONE WHO LOVED

I LOVE THE FEELING OF LOVE
THE DEPTH OF LOVE

BUT I HAVE RUINED THE EMOTION OF LOVE
THE SENSITIVITY OF LOVE

I LOVE TO BE TOUCHED BY LOVE
MADE BY LOVE
MAKE LOVE

BUT I HAVE MISTREATED THE CARESS FROM LOVE
THE KISS OF LOVE

I LOVE TO LOVED BY LOVE
BOUND BY LOVE

BUT I HAVE LOST THAT LOVE
I BROKE MY LOVE
AND NEGLECTED OUR LOVE

I LOVE TO PICTURE LOVE
PAINT LOVE

BUT I HAVE DRIED LOVE
STOLEN LOVE

I LOVE TO WALK WITH LOVE
TALK TO ME LOVE
SAY IT AGAIN LOVE
OVER AND OVER…LOVE
BUT I HAVE RAN FROM LOVE
MUTED THE WORD LOVE
AGAIN AND AGAIN…LOVE

I LOVE TO LOVE YOU STILL LOVE
FEEL LOVE
HEAR LOVE
SPEAK LOVE

LOVE ME LOVE
LOVE MY KIND OF LOVE
LOVE THIS LOVE
LOVE…LOVE…LOVE...

I AM LOVE…

NICE LINES...: I Want You TO....

I want u to hug me when I
get scared...

I want u to kiss me when I
act like a kid...

I want u to care for me
When I m sick...

I wanna u to listen to me
when I wanna say u
something...

I want u to understand my
silence

when I dont've words to express what I feel...

I want u to be there when
I need a friend...

I want u to love me for
what I am...

And above all I want u to complete.!!

I WANT SOMEONE...

I want someone...

Who will love me unconditionally.
Who will rub my back and tell me everything is going to be okay.
Who will listen to me... And tell me everything that they know.

Who will be willing to put me back together...
Who will light up with joy, and put on a smile, whenever they see me.
Who will make me laugh when I am down, and never let me touch the ground.
Who will be able to know when I need a kiss...
Who will not even need to say words when we lay in bed... because so much love is just embedded into the 2 of us... we know what the other will say.
Who will lift me up off the floor, and dust me off.
Who will show me the path that I've longed for my whole life.
Who will tell me "No matter what you do, nothing will change the way that I love you"
Who will push everything away, to be together.
Who will want to spend forever with me.
Who will have the same likes and dislikes, so we can have a good conversation...
but also a lot of different likes and dislikes, so that we are like puzzle pieces... that just mesh together perfectly, and complete a puzzle.
Who will go through anything to put my heart back together... no matter how many pieces it is in.
Who will be happy for me no matter what, no matter what happens.
Who will want me to be happy...
Who will be able to lay with me, and get that seductive look in their eyes... That just gets me going.
Who will inspire me more than anything ever has.
Who will be my everything.
Who will have the ear to listen to anything I have to say...
Who will give an arm and a leg for me.
Who will give anything to see that smile on my face.
Who will be my wife.
Who will need me more than anyone. Or anything.
Who will teach me lessons as we go through life together.
Who will know me... inside and out.
Who will give up their past, just for me.
Who will make me feel like a million bucks, everyday.
Who will want to be with me every second of every day.
Who will let me give them my key.
Who will let my heart beat for them.
Who will let me give everything that I have left to them.
Who will help me rebuild.
Who will love me... As much as I did you

True Happiness

♥♥♥The True Happiness comes from the peace of heart and mind... Which can never be attained in absence of the Love.. {"The Most powerful and precious power"} Which is only you My Love.♥♥♥

SOUL MATE: BEAUTIFUL POEM BY MS. POOJA SHARMA

                                                       SOUL MATE

So the saying goes,

Though I never believed that this was true,
Until the day I came to know you.

You entered my life so unexpectedly,
And since that day you have set me free.
My life has begun to feel complete,
And my dreams have started to become reality,
I believe that you and me are meant to be.

What we have is so special and true,
I admire even the little things that you do,
Youre like my best friend and it feels like Ive known you for years,
Loosing you to someone else is one of my biggest fears.

I have come so close to you that I want to be with you forever,
To be your wife,
Bear your children and grow old together.
This is one of my dreams,
And I believe dreams do come true.
Thats what happened when the Lord above,
Sent me someone as special as you....

♥♥Being In Love The Most Beautiful♥♥

Being Single Is Fun...
But Being Committed In Love Feels Awesome...

-When You Wake Up You Find
"Good Morning" In Your Inbox...

Or Early In The Morning You Listen To That Sweet Voice Saying:
" Ooh, My sweet baby is awaking...!"

-When You're All Alone,Sick Or Lost.. You Need Just That Person With You..To Hold You In There Arms... -

Those Small-Small Fights, & Saying " I'm Not Gonna Talk To You "
But Still... You Check Your Mobile To See The Missed Calls & Msgs From Them...

-Waking Up Suddenly At Midnight...
Calling Them Talking Till 4 am.... .

-Those Sweet Memories..
After A Fight Saying: " Sorry Sweetheart..." & Then Fighting Over Whose Mistake It Was...

-When We Call Them & If It Says
" Is Busy With Another Call, Plz Stay On Line Or Call Later.. .!"
We Find It Frustrating.... .

-Seeing His/Her Face & Becoming Happy..Without Reasons.. .

-Reading Their Cute Text & Smiling Idiotically... Caught By Friends & Family....

-Imagining Future Lives With Them... Waking Up & Sleep While Cuddling Them...

Nowadays We Often Here People Say Love Hurts...
Love Is Fake Its Unreal....
But Its Not Love...
It May Be The Wrong Person...
Or The Wrong Timings Which May Cause A Heart Break...
But Tell Me Honestly...
" Isn't Being In Love The Most Beautiful".....♥

HONOR KILLING: A HARSH REALITY OF INDIAN SOCIETY.

Honor killing is the murder of a family member or social group by other members, due to the belief that the victim has brought dishonor to the family or community. The perceived dishonor to the clan is believed to be caused by unacceptable dress codes, marriage of their choice, marriage within same gotra or inter-caste marriage and engaging in sexual acts.
This heinous crime has gained more momentum in the recent past.  Such incidents have been making news headlines across the country. Story of a prince and princess, who loved, married and lived happily, has been a part of everyone’s childhood. But in real life after marriage they do not live happily, but are found as corpses, if they show the audacity of going against the pride and reputation of the family and community. They are punished because they forget that marriage is not for their happiness but one in which community’s happiness is taken care of.
Love your parents, siblings, relatives, friends and everybody is what we are being taught as children, but least does the victims know that what they had been taught since childhood will turn out to be their cause of death.  It is a sheer shame that we talk about love, harmony and unity on one side and ruthlessly stamp them under our feet in the name of reputation and honour.
This is the harsh reality of Indian society. Sociologists believe that these killings continue because of continued rigid caste system. The pseudo-caste status which brings along other benefits for the family and clan pushes them to this crime. Another important lingering point is the mentality of people which has not changed and accepting marriages in same gotra or inter-caste is still considered a sin. The abnormally increasing rate of this crime is mainly due to lack of formal governance in the concerned regions.
Statistics reveal that honor killing has a greater geographical coverage than just being limited to rural areas. Definitely, the rural percentage is predominating but cases in big cities and states like Delhi, Punjab, Haryana, UP and Tamil Nadu also cannot be ruled out.
This bubbling cauldron of inhumanity is mounting as the growing incidence of “honor killings” becomes public. However, it would be infantile to believe that the reported facts and figures talk in entirety. Much has still to be done to safeguard those who dare not speak out.
A lot of things to be done to reform cultural settings, amend the existing laws and add clauses to IPC as separate offense, educate, and provide professional help to those who commit, inspire, and subtly condone this aberration. Violence is endemic in nature and in humankind. What is the answer? The spider continuous to create deadly orb web and, in the process, the cycle continues.

Be who you are... Beauty lies within you...

We deny our own beauty because others can’t or won’t recognise it. Instead of accepting ourselves as we are, we try to imitate what we see around us.
We try to be what other people think of as ‘pretty’ and, little by little, our soul fades, our will weakens, and all the potential we had to make the world a more beautiful place withers away.
We forget that the world is what we imagine it to be.
We stop being the moonlight and become, instead, the pool of water reflecting it. Tomorrow, the water will evaporate in the sun. And all because, one day, someone said: ‘You are ugly.’ Or: ‘She is pretty.’ With those three simple words, they stole away all our self-confidence.
And we become ugly and embittered.

My Life without you, is so Incomplete MY LOVE...

My Life without you, is so Incomplete

Without you, the city falls asleep softly,Without you, the color disappears slowly,Without you, the trees forget the wind,Without you, the night is chagrined,Without you, my music does not amaze,Without you, my hours are days,Without you, my heart gets bored,Without you, my steps are too heavy and not labored.Without you,My thoughts prevent me from going to bed,Without you, I do not distinguish the horizon ahead,Without you, there are no heavens,Without you, the time forgets its reasons.Without you,I am afraid of the next day not chosen,Without you, the haze conceals the splendid ocean,Without you, I do not figure or picture anything pleasant,Without you, I am wondering this question at this moment…My love, where are you hidden?Without you, my happiness is forbidden,My heart without you, is not at all replete!

YOU BRING OUT THE BEST IN ME...:)

From the moment I met you I just knew you'd be mine
You touched my hand
And I knew that this was gonna be our time
I don't ever wanna lose this feeling
I don't wanna spend a moment apart ...


'Cos you bring out the best in me, like no-one else can do
That's why I'm by your side, and that's why I love you ...

Every day that I'm here with you
I know that it feels right
And I've just got to be near you every day and every night
And you know that we belong together
It just had to be you and me ...

'Cos you bring out the best in me, like no-one else can do
That's why I'm by your side, and that's why I love you ....

And you know that we belong together, It just had to be you and me
....
'Cos you bring out the best in me, like no-one else can do ...
That's why I'm by your side ...
'Cos you bring out the best in me, like no-one else can do ....
That's why I'm by your side, and that's why I love you ....
'Cos you bring out the best in me, like no-one else can do ....
That's why I'm by your side, and that's why I love you ....

==== 7 Most Beautiful Promise ==== .... By A TRUE Lover.... ♥♥♥

1. I am daily going to wish you good morning.♥♥♥

2. I will take care of your family also.♥♥♥

3. I will always hug you at least 10 times in a day.♥♥♥

4. I will understand you and always talk to you.♥♥♥

5. If we fight, or had some argument..
We will talk only by hugging each other.♥♥♥

6. I will never escape a single day without kissing you.♥♥♥

7. I will always love you,
without any reason....♥♥♥

She will never walk alone

She will never walk alone,
Because God is always watching out for her.
She will never walk alone,
Because she has a friend that is God.

She will never walk alone,
She has someone who loves her and that someone is God.
She will never walk alone,
Because God is a good friend of her.

She will never walk alone,
She will always have someone to keep her company,
And that someone is God,
She will never walk alone.

I MISS YOU..

[♥] "I Miss You" [♥]
when something really good happens, because
you are the one I want to share it with...

[♥] "I Miss You" [♥]

when something is troubling me, because you are
the one who understands me so well...
[♥] "I Miss You" [♥]
when I laugh & cry because I know that you are
the one that makes my laughter grow & my tears
disappear....
♥ I Miss you all the time but I Miss you the most
when
I wake up later at night and think of all the
beautiful moments we spent with each other....♥ :(

i love you... wish you tooo...:(

Do you know how many feelings i carry in my heart,
how do i end my day and how do i start.
Missing you and longing 4 u is all i can do,
but i wish as i feel you feel the same too.

Do you know how many unspoken words i wanna say,
how can i say i keep on finding the ways.
Loving you and praying 4 you is all i can do
but i wish as i feel you feel the same too.

Do you know how many dreams i have in my eyes,
how can i fulfill them i keep on telling the lies.
Preaching you and caring 4 you is all i can do,
but i wish as i feel you feel the same too.

Do you know how much pain is deep in my soul,
how do i bear them and keep trying to come out of the whole,
Searching you and urging 4 u is all i can do
but i wish as i feel you feel the same too.

Do you know how much I LOVE YOU,
i wanna tell but unable to do.
Missing u, loving u, searching u ,wat else i can do,
I wish as i feel you feel the same too -

SAY " I LOVE YOU".... DON'T GET TOO LATE..

He may not be the cutest boyfriend that can dance, sing, bring you flowers everyday, but he cares about you.

He gets jealous when you’re paying more attention to other guys than him,

he stumbles over his words because he doesn't know the

perfect things to say to let you know how much you mean to him, and he won’t stop fighting for you.

------------------------

She may not be the prettiest girl in the world that looks cute doing whatever she does and plays video games, writes you love letters, and surprises you constantly with cute things, but she loves you.

She worries every minute if she’s still your favorite girl in the universe, she’ll go through the day wondering if she should hit you up first because she doesn’t want to seem too clingy, and when she says she cares about you,

she means it more than any other girl ever could. They’re the person you both think about when someone else comes along, the last person you think about before you fall asleep, you need them.

So stop being so stubborn and open your eyes, because everyone can see it except for you two..!!

Never be so late to tell your love ones how much you love them, care for them...
Be Strong enough to express your love otherwise be strong to see your love ones with someone else.... :/

You will say, "I love you"

The sparkle in your eyes puts the stars to shame, my feelings for you i just can't explain...

The love, the affection, the care i feel for you...I just hope one day, you'd say, I love You!

The way we talk, the way we chat, the way we while away our time sitting on that mat...

the way you look at me and then shyly smile...trust me, that alone makes my life worthwhile...

The warmth and affection of your hug...Our late night talks, countless coffee mugs...

Admirers like me will be found so few....I just hope one day you'd say, I love You!

As you rest your head on my shoulders and we watch the sunset together...I don't want that moment to end, i want that feeling to carry on forever...

You're the one i feel peace with when i am laying in your arms...You are the one who captivates me with all her witty charm...

Whenever we part even for a few hours, i don't wish to bid-adieu...I hope someday, you'd say I Love You! 

Your smile is what i need when i have a bad day...You are the rainbow in my life when my world turn grey...

Just when i feel low and you say, "it'll be alright."...that's where i gather my strength from, i know i'll be able to fight.

For the world i am one person but my better half is you...i hope someday, you'd say I love You!

As i write this poem, trying to express my love...there's one thing i am sure of, you're an angel blessed from above...

The calmness on your face, the simplicity in your personality...I know i am blessed to have you, i thank the almighty.

I know that day is not far when you'll understand my value...I just hope one day, you'd say I Love You!

You are the one i think of when I listen a romantic song, read a love story...I hope i grow old with you, I love you till the hoary.

You are the most beautiful girl i  say...My love for you is growing each day...

But still my dream of having you all mine is not yet true..I just hope someday, you'd say I Love You!

And that day alone would make my life worth living...i'll shower my love on you, you'll be love drenched, it'll be love raining.

As i read this poem, it's you i miss...those eyes, that face and those tender lips i long to kiss.

Yes, i know it'll all be new...i know someday, you'll say, "I love You!"

SWEET LOVE POEM...

Like a star you came into my life
You filled my heart with joy
You took my pain as if it was yours
You provided me with love that no one could give me
You gave me a shoulder to cry on

You were my pillar when I was falling
You were my strength when I was weak
With your smile you made my living on earth worthwhile
With the soft words you whispered in my ear
Made me realize that I was in Love indeed
Without you next to me my life is meaningless
Every day I sit and pray that you will remain as sweet as you
are
And that is why I will always Love you as long as you let me....

 

 

courtesy  LoveNeverComesEasy

LOVE GOOD OR BAD... ;-)

IT makes you cry...
makes u hate yourself sometimes...
you may get away from other people to be with the one you love..

you spent sleepless nights ,
you apologise even when you know... you are right..
you give up your happiness to see that someone smile..
you have to face possesivness of your lover..
you feel u need space in ur life...
N someday u think like:

LOVE IS NOT A GOOD FEELING..

but then, Love,
makes you smile when you are sad.
makes you love life even more..
it makes u strong to face the world..
you smile just by remembering that someone..
you spent sleepless
nights because you love to talk to that someone..
that someone makes u feel so special... endless
laughs....
so many talks...you love
to reply your conversations..
the moment u r in their arms,
Nothing else in da world matters..
those hugs n kisses are the best possesions of ur life....

TRUE DEPICTION OF INDIAN SOCIETY...{ABOUT LOVE}

Love happens. You do not realize when that special someone comes and occupies a tiny little space in your heart and gradually becomes the only one that matters. He changes your world and you accept the change. He adores you and you let him. He cares for you and you start behaving like a kid. He takes care of you and you feel warm. He scolds you and you pretend getting sad about it. You fight with him and drift apart just to make him miss you and pull you closer. He alone can make you feel complete. You can never get enough of him, no matter how much time you spend together. You would do anything to be with him. Those crazy talks, laughter, loving stares, warm hugs, passionate kisses - Love is just so beautiful. It sees no barriers but the world does; barriers like RELIGION. What if a Hindu falls in love with a Muslim? It suddenly is thought of as a crime. Why?

You cannot plan who to fall in love with. Neither can you stop yourself from loving someone. It’s inevitable. It just happens and it can happen with anyone. Indian cinema has a whole lot of movies highlighting the clause of falling in love with the most unexpected person. The guy and the girl are either enemies or from an enemy clan; hating, bitching, fighting and screaming at one another in the beginning. And moments later, they are inseparable. However stupid it may sound, we love to watch these movies, over and over again. I have no count of how many times I have watched DDLJ (dilwale dulhaniya le jayenge). And to add to it, every time is like a first time watch. SRK is the first reason, of course. But another more important reason is I can relate to it. Love truly is uncertain. You never know when the person you keep fighting with and annoyingly tell your friends about, turns out to be the love of your life. This unpredictability is what makes love special. If we could plan when and who to fall in love with, it would have been a little less fascinating. A lot less fascinating I think. The uncertainity; I often thought of it as the beauty of love. Not anymore. Yesterday, watching "ishqzaade" I was so much in terms with reality. I do not know how many of you have watched it and how many of you liked it. I simply loved it. I could give a lot many reasons for that; Parineeti, the lead actress, did really well, she is so pretty, they looked cute together, the music was awesome and so on. But everything took back seat soon after the climax. Beyond acting and entertainment, the movie highlighted the core reality only to make me uneasy and keep thinking about it later on. My mind is still stuck to what I saw a day before. Can loving someone of different religion take away lives? Those innocent hearts died simply because they loved. Tragic.

They say do not expect anything from anyone. Is it applicable to one's own parents? They begin making you understand everything and they cease to understand you when you need them. Strange! Going back to the movie, I was amazed to see their parents running after their lives for being in love and wanting to get married. Shockingly amazed, I should say. How can someone who brought you up to face the world turn against you just because you desire to live with someone from a different religion? Zoya, a Muslim girl and Parma, a Hindu guy; they met, they talked and they fell in love. It was destiny. They never hurt their parents on purpose. Even if they did, unknowingly though, they deserved to be forgiven. When your own parents turn against you, you obviously cannot expect anything from the rest of the world. You become hopeless. I cannot say I know the feeling but I assume it to be pathetic. Even worse! I still remember Zoya say " aise situation mei hasi hi aati h". She trusted her parents to understand her and accept her love even after she knew they wanted to see her dead. She expected them to love her enough to forgive her; little did she know that her own father would try to shoot her. I was taken aback. How could her father bring himself to shoot her? It was just a movie though but still. Sometimes you don’t just watch a movie, you live it. Every incident had so much to say. The extent of helplessness was clearly depicted by the choice they made at the end. They killed each other. I can never imagine how it feels like to kill someone you love so dearly. I guess sometimes good bye is forever. Sigh. :( 

Their dead bodies were seen just to make sure they were dead, nothing else. How can parents not cry seeing their child dead? How could they kill them at the first place? Why is everyone so against inter cast and inter religion marriages? Could our so called mature elders grow up to think beyond religion? Does the special marriage act 1954, allow a Hindu and a Muslim to get married? If not, why such laws are not being made? Is it right to take away the lives of innocent people wanting to get married? The movie struck a chord. It really did. I have so many questions to ask and I have no one to ask them to. I feel uneasy, sad, suffocated; all at the same time.

“It’s strange how humans divided people into religions, castes, races only to forget humanity later on.”





THANKS! TO Shumali Sharma FOR THE ARTICLE.

All I Have To Give....

I don't know what he does to make you cry,
But I'll be there to make you smile.
I don't have a fancy car,
To get to you I'd walk a thousand miles.
I don't care if he buys you nice things
Does his gifts come from the heart, I don't know
But if you were my girl
I'd make it so we'd never be apart.

But my love is all I have to give
Without you I don't think I can live
I wish I could give the world to you, but
Love is all I have to give

When you talk-does it seem like he's not
Even listening to a word you say?
That's okay babe, just tell me your problems
I'll try my best to kiss them all away
Does he leave when you need him the most?
Does his friends get all your time?
Baby please, I'm on my knees
Praying for the day that you'll be mine!!

To you, hey girl, I don't want you to cry no more-inside
All the money in the world could never add up to all the love
I have inside, I Love You

And I will give it to you
All I can give, all I can give
Everything I have is for you
But love is all I have to give,,,,,

I'LL NEVER BREAK YOUR HEART...:)

Baby, I know you're hurting
Right now you feel like you could never
Love again
Now all I ask is for a chance
To prove that I love you

From the first day
That I saw your smiling face
Honey, I knew that we would
Be together forever
Ooh when I asked you out
You said no but I found out
Darling that you'd been hurt
You felt like you'd never love again
I deserve a try honey just once
Give me a chance and I'll prove this all wrong
You walked in, you were so quick to judge
But honey he' s nothing like me


I'll never break your heart
I'll never make you cry
I'd rather die than live without you
I'll give you all of me
Honey, that's no lie

As time goes by
You will get to know me
A little more better
Girl that's the way love goes baby, baby
And I (I) know you're afraid (know you're afraid)
To let your feelings show (feelings show)
And I understand
Girl, it's time to let go (girl, it's time to let go because)
I deserve a try (try) honey
Just once (once)
Give me a chance (chance) and I'll prove this all wrong (wrong you walked)
You walked in, you were so quick to judge (quick to judge)
But honey he's nothing like me
Darling why can't you see

No way, no how (I'll never break your heart girl, I'll never make you cry)
I swear (Oh I, oh I, I swear)
No way, no how (I'll never break your heart girl, I'll never make you cry)

LOVE AND HAPPINESS

Love and happiness...
something that can make you do wrong, make you do right...
Love...

Love and happiness
Wait a minute...
something's going wrong
someone's on the phone
three o'clock in the morning
talkin' about how she can make it right
well,
happiness is when you really feel good with somebody
nothing wrong with being in one with someone
oh, baby, love and happiness
love and happiness...
love and happiness...

Love and happiness
You be good to me
I'll be good to you
we'll be together
we'll see each other
walk away with victory
oh baby,
love and happiness...
love and happiness...

Make you do right... love'll make you do wrong...
make you come home early...
make you stay out all night long...
the power of love...

wait a minute,
let me tell you...
the power of love...
make you do right... love'll make you do wrong...
make you want to dance...
love and happiness...
love and happiness...

love is... wait a minute... love is...
walkin' together...
talkin' together...
say it again...
say it together...

LOVE, BREAKUPS{PROBLEM'S ONLY SOLUTION}

Breaking up is not the best
solution when

there's a simple problem that can
be fixed, alot of couples break
upfor a
stupid excuse, it takes sacrifice
and communication
to fix a problem..
If you really love a person you
wouldn't give up easily nobody
said life was easy. You have to be
patient,
understand one
another and be committed. :)
Relationships are
shitty nowdays because they
simply give up easily either one or
both of them
without even trying..
wake up people.....♥

Love and Meditation By OSHO

Love and Meditation

Osho,The Last Testament, Volume 2, Discourse 21

How can people turn the human phenomenon of falling in love into a meditation?

IT IS THE EASIEST WAY. In human life, love is the closest phenomenon to meditation. The moment you fall in love with someone, what actually happens? What transpires between those two who have fallen in love with each other? They drop their egos -- at least for each other. They drop their hypocrisies, their masks. They want to be together, almost one soul within two bodies. That's the desire of love.

And this is a beautiful moment to change it into a meditation. Just nobody has ever told them. In fact, just the opposite has been told to them: that love is against meditation, so people who are falling in love can never become meditators.

THE SAME PEOPLE who make celibacy spiritual make love unspiritual, something dirty, condemned. But to me things are totally different. Love helps you to relax, which is part of meditation. Love helps you to be joyous, which is part of meditation. Love helps you, for a few moments at least, to be silent, which is the essential part of meditation. And finally, making love, if you attain to an orgasmic experience, gives you a glimpse of what meditation is, but it is millions of times more than this.

So to me, love is a basic experience which can help you to become meditators. The old religions have been preventing it, and they have been preventing it for a certain reason. If people can transform their love into meditation, then the priests and the churches and the synagogues are no more needed, then people are totally free. No spiritual leadership is needed. And there are millions of priests around the world, like parasites on humanity. And naturally they will give you wrong ideas, against love, and they will give you ideas for meditation, but because you don't have the basic experience....

LOVE IS JUST LIKE when you enter into a swimming pool, step by step you are going into deeper water. Then the floor of the swimming pool is divided in two parts, one for those who cannot swim, so the water is up to your neck, and then the second part for those who can swim.

But those who want to learn swimming have to learn in the first part, which is not for swimmers. They have to learn it there. Once they have learned, then slowly they will gather courage and enter into deeper water, because for a swimmer it does not matter how deep the water is; the swimmer is always on the surface. The water may be a hundred feet deep, five hundred feet deep, or five miles deep, it makes no difference to the swimmer. It makes a difference only to the non-swimmer. Beyond five feet, everything is death. But the swimming pool is one -- shallow, deep -- it is one. And the boundary line is only a line until you learn to swim.

To me, love and meditation are just like that. Love is the shallow space in a swimming pool, for those who cannot meditate. But that is the place to learn meditation. And it is the same pool, it is the same water, it is the same kind of phenomenon. You are just unable to go deeper because you have been made afraid even to enter into it. The shallow part has been condemned, and you have been told to jump into the deeper part without knowing how to swim.

So they disturbed your love life by condemnation and they disturbed your meditative life by sheer strategy: because you don't know swimming, you cannot go so deep. And you don't have any experience of silence, peace, sheer joy, a little bit of ecstasy, something orgasmic -- these will give you the hints how meditation is not a myth. You have tasted it a little bit. It is the same energy field, just you have to go deeper into it.

WHAT ACTUALLY HAPPENS when one couple moves into the realm of orgasmic experience? What actually happens? Every point has to be understood. Time stops. For a moment the pendulum does not move, and that single moment seems to be almost eternity. The two persons are no more two -- for a moment. They have melted into each other. There is no thought in the mind, for a moment. It is all empty and silent, and these are the things which have to be deepened in meditation.

And once you have tasted them, you will be surprised that it does not depend on the other person. Something happens within you. Something happens within the other person. But it is not dependent. If you can sit silently, if you can manage, by watching your thoughts, to bring a gap, a stop, you will suddenly see time has stopped again. And now it is in your hands, not in the hands of biology. You can keep this time stopped as long as you want. And once you know the secret key....

The key is: no thoughts, no ego, no time -- you just are.

That's why I have never been against love. I have been much condemned for it, naturally, because I was cutting the very roots of the business of all the religions.

EVERY RELIGION IS against me. Their profession depends on condemning love and praising meditation. They know you cannot attain to meditation, and they know now your love is condemned, it is a sin. You will never experience any orgasmic phenomenon, so meditation will remain just a philosophy, and your life will remain loveless, angry, full of rage, ready to explode at any excuse. Because where will your energy go?

It could have become peace, silence, joy, blissfulness. You did not allow it to become that. That repressed energy turns into poison. That's why everybody is irritable, annoyed, worried, tense. The simple reason is that they have lost the natural source of relaxation.

No animal looks irritated, annoyed, angry, because they don't understand the language the priests speak.

They have never heard that celibacy is spiritual. Of course they cannot attain to meditation, but they are far better than those human beings who could have attained meditative heights, but have lost even the simple biological experience of orgasm.

THOSE ARE SIMPLY indications of your possibilities, potentialities. And it is easier to experiment with something natural in the beginning and then to try something which is supernatural, which belongs to higher nature.

And once you know how to be silent, how to be thoughtless, how to be in a state of no time, no mind, you experience such orgasmic joy, which has nothing to do with sex, it has such purity and such innocence.

A man who has attained to that purity and innocence has no need of sex, it is no longer a psychological problem for him. But there is no prohibition either. He can enjoy sex too, and he will enjoy it more than anybody else, because his orgasm will immediately become meditative.

Having experienced the meditative orgasm -- such a greater phenomenon -- his sexual orgasm will immediately trigger the bigger orgasm. He can play with sex. There is no harm in it. There is no need, but there is no prohibition either. It is up to him.

THE MEDITATIVE ORGASM absorbs your sexual energy, because you don't have any other energy. Your whole energy is sexual energy, and that vast explosion of joy simply absorbs all your energy. Hence, you need not become a pervert, you need not make an effort to remain celibate. It is just your choice.

If you want to play old games once in a while, it is perfectly good. In fact, perhaps it should be a part of every enlightened man's life to have sex once in a while, because that will change the attitude of the whole world about sex.

Without that, it is very difficult to change. Then they can see that even an enlightened person can enjoy sex. There is nothing sin-like in it. And it will join the enlightened man and unenlightened man in a bridge. At least on one point, both experience the same thing....

Love is a natural kind of meditation. And meditation is a supernatural kind of love.


                                                                                            SPREAD THE LOVE

AS LONG AS LOVE ME...

Although loneliness has always been a friend of mine
I'm leavin' my life in your hands
People say I'm crazy and that I am blind
Risking it all in a glance
And how you got me blind is still a mystery
I can't get you out of my head
Don't care what is written in your history
As long as you're here with me

I don't care who you are
Where you're from
What you did
As long as you love me
Who you are
Where you're from
Don't care what you did
As long as you love me

Every little thing that you have said and done
Feels like it's deep within me
Doesn't really matter if you're on the run
It seems like we're meant to be

I don't care who you are (who you are)
Where you're from (where you're from)
What you did
As long as you love me (I don't know)
Who you are (who you are)
Where you're from (where you're from)
Don't care what you did
As long as you love me (yeah)

I've tried to hide it so that no one knows
But I guess it shows
When you look into my eyes
What you did and where you're comin from
I don't care, as long as you love me, baby

I don't care who you are (who you are)
Where you're from (where you're from)
What you did
As long as you love me (as long as you love me)
Who you are (who you are)
Where you're from (where you're from)
Don't care what you did (yeah)
As long as you love me (as long as you love me)
Who you are (who you are)
Where you're from
What you did
As long as you love me
Who you are (who you are)
Where you're from (where you're from)
As long as you love me
Who you are
As long as you love me
What you did (I don't care)
As long as you love me

TURE LOVE: I will never ever quit loving you

As long as this world
Keeps on spinnin' around
I'll keep hangin' on to this love that I found
I won't let go, cause I know
I have something that is true
And I will never ever quit loving you

There will be days
When you get down
And you've got to find ways to keep your feet on the ground
Oh but honey, please remember
Even when I'm feelin' blue
That I will never ever quit loving you

And crazy times like these (oh woa woa woa)
There's nothing like your love to put my soul at ease
Cause every time you choose to come around
This whole world seems to slow on down
You just keep on huggin' and kissin'
Oh and love me like you do
And I will never ever quit loving you

You just keep huggin' and kissin'
Oh and love me like you do
And I will never ever quit loving you
And I will never ever quit loving you
Never quit loving you
Never quit loving you
Never quit loving you

EMPTINESS QUOTE

I find myself standing where she had abandoned me, surrounded by miles and miles of darkness with her memories the only hope, the only source for allowing me to live and survive. I still wait for the road to end; I still wait for the light to caress my eyes; I still wait for the morning to come! But I know my moon is gone and the night shall always remain dark so also the sky of my—life, empty, blank and barren. I still regret the fact that I didn't try to stop her and hug her forcefully on the day when she was leaving. May be she could have felt the warmth in my arms, I wish I could have peered into her eyes and maybe she could have seen the tears swimming in my eyes. I wish she had held my hand for then she would have understood how incomplete they would look without her fingers entwined in mine. May be my heartbeats and my love which I had just started to feel for her would have given her enough solace, so that she would have melted that day and stayed forever in my life…and then things would have been quite different…I wish.…and I still do.

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The myth of Psyche: Love, Trust and beauty.

Once upon a time there was a beautiful princess, admired by everyone, but whom no one dared to propose to.
Desperate, the king consulted the god Apollo, who said that Psyche should be left alone, in a mourning dress, at the top of a mountain. Before daybreak, a serpent would come to her and marry her.
The king obeyed, and throughout the night the princess waited, terrified and freezing, for the arrival of her husband. She ended up falling asleep.
As she awoke, she was in a beautiful palace, transformed into a queen.
Every night her husband would come to her, they made love, and he had just one condition: Psyche could have anything she desired, but she should trust him completely and never see his face.
The young woman lived happily for a very long time; she had comfort, affection, joy, she was in love with the man who came to her every night.
Once in a while, however, she was afraid of being married to a horrible serpent. One night, while her husband slept, she illuminated their bed with a lantern and found Eros (or Cupid), a man of incredible beauty, beside her.
The light woke him up and he found out that the woman he loved wasn’t able to fulfil his only desire, and disappeared.
Every time I read this story, I asked myself: Will we never be allowed to discover the face of love? It was necessary that many years passed below the bridge of my life, until I could understand that love is an act of faith in another person, and her face shall stay covered in mystery.
Each moment shall be lived and enjoyed, but whenever we try to understand it, the magic disappears.
After I accepted this, I also allowed my life to be guided by a strange language, which I call ‘signs’. I know the world is talking to me, and I need to listen to it, and if I do that, I will always be guided toward what there is of the most intense, passionate and beautiful.
Of course it isn’t easy, and sometimes I feel like Psyche at the cliff, cold and terrified; but if I am able to overcome that night and surrender to mystery and to the faith in life, I always end up waking up in a palace. All I need is to trust in Love, even running the risk of erring.
Concluding the Greek myth: Desperate to have her love back, Psyche submits herself to a series of tasks imposed by Aphrodite (or Venus), Cupid’s (or Eros’s) mother, who was envious of her beauty.
One of these tasks was to give Aphrodite some of her beauty. Psyche becomes curious about the box that should contain the beauty of the goddess, and again, she isn’t able to deal with Mystery and decides to open it.
She didn’t find anything of beauty in the box, but an infernal sleepiness that left her inert, and without movement.
Eros/Cupid is in love as well, regretting not having been more tolerant toward his wife. He is able to enter the castle and wake her up from this profound sleep with the tip of his arrow and tells her once again: ‘You almost died due to your curiosity.’
This is the great contradiction: Psyche who sought to find safety in knowledge, found insecurity. Both of them went to Jupiter, the supreme God, to implore for this union never to be undone. Jupiter strongly advocated for the cause of the lovers and got Venus to agree. From that day on, Psyche (the essence of the human being) and Eros (love) are forever united.
Those who don’t accept it and always seek an explanation for the magic and mysterious, human relations will lose the best of what life has to offer.

wo meri soch hai...

Wo meri soch hai
koi aur use sochta bhi hai toh
kyu hai..???? Wo meri labon ka nagma hai
koi aur use gungunata bhi hai toh
kyu hai...???? Wo bas meri chahat hai

koi aur use chahta bhi hai toh
kyu hai....???? Wo meri nazar ka aaina hai
koi aur use dekhta bhi hai toh
kyu hai....???? Use rab ne banaya hai sirf mere
liye
koi aur use mangta bhi toh kyu
hai....??

love emo....

Safar Mein Guzri Hai Umar Apni, Ab Ik
Thikana Chahiye,
Ke Zinda Rehne Ko Koi To Bahana Chahiye,
Koi To Ho Jo In Rasmon Se Elaan-E-
Baghawat Kare,

Kahi To Andhere Mein Koi Chirag Jalana
Chahiye,
Kab Se Veeran Pada Hai Ye Aaina–e–dil,
Sochta Hoon Ab Koi Naya Chehra Sajana
Chahiye,
Bohat Muddat Se Muntazir Hai Mere Desh
Ki Matti,
Shayad Ke Ab Mujhe Lout Ke Ghar Jana
Chahiye,
Mujhe Fakat Usi Ke Sath Ki Tamana Thi
yaaron,
Magar Use Mere Sath-Sath Sara Zamana
Chahiye.

I need you...

I need you
in times of pain,
of fear and stress;
even to smile in my happiness too.

......I need you
to share my joys,
to share my tears too,
with you.

I need you
to hold on
and be strong,
when things are going wrong.

I need you
to keep the faith and trust
and remind what I'm!

I need you
only for two times
Now & Always...

HAPPY 66th INDEPENDENCE DAY...

Just how independent is independence? A funny question to ask when the nation is about to celebrate its independence from foreign rule. Colonial rule - the domination of one people by another people - is slavery, and an affront to the concept of civilisation. But though as a nation we attained political freedom 65 years ago, there are many other freedoms that we have yet to win: freedom from po

verty, deprivation, disease and the bane of corruption at all levels of public life. What price political freedom if it doesn't include freedom from hunger? Freedom from inequality, injustice and exploitation?

Is total freedom, complete independence, or purna swaraj, ever really possible? Even when all our basic physical needs - such as food, shelter and clothing - have been met, we are not, and can't be, entirely free in our quest for what is called self-realisation. Our actions - what we do and say - are necessarily governed by society's laws, and cultural norms and values which impose obligations, duties and responsibilities.

Without such restrictions we would have not freedom but anarchy and chaos. Freedom means the freedom to choose between two or more things, or courses of action. But if there is no moral compass to direct us, to tell us what is deemed to be right and what is wrong, there is no more choice left. And without choice there is no freedom, there is only the tyranny of 'chance desires'. As Ivan Karamazov said: If everything is permissible, then nothing is permissible.

It is not just our own country, or society, or family, which obliges us to act within the limits set by laws and ethical and moral codes. In an increasingly interdependent world - both environmentally and economically - our destinies are linked with the actions of others, as their destinies are linked to what we do.

No man is an island, said John Donne. The poet foresaw what is called the 'butterfly effect': if a butterfly flutters its wings in Japan, it will create an earthquake on the other side of the globe.

Even sceptics about man-made climate change will concede that the destruction of a South American rainforest, say, can have unforeseeable repercussions on, for example, monsoon rains in India, or the melting of the polar icecaps. Similarly, an economic crisis in one part of the world can affect far distant lives and livelihoods.

We are bound together by our common humanity and by the planet we share. We are bound by Kant's moral imperative: choose to act so that each of your actions could be made into a universal principle. If I choose to exploit the Earth's resources without restraint, then I must accept that all others will do the same, with the result that soon there'll be no more resources for anyone to exploit. Our freedom is always a paradox, bound in as it is by the freedom of others.

We are not free even in terms of our bodies. Biology is destiny, geneticists tell us. Our DNA determines what our physical attributes and aptitudes will be: the colour of our eyes, and whether or not we can ever become Olympic athletes. Does physiological determinism leave no place for free will?

We are part matter, part mind. Matter must regulate itself by its own laws, leaving the mind free to explore the farthest reaches of thought. In his novel, Necessary Doubt, Colin Wilson writes about a scientist who invents a drug which suppresses all automatic bodily functions - such as breathing, and the beating of the heart, and the circulation of blood - so that all physical determinism is excluded and the mind is liberated to exercise its free will to the fullest. To his horror, the scientist discovers that when automatic bodily functions have to be willed by the mind, the mind becomes the body's captive and has no freedom for abstract or philosophical thought.

So, in the face of the reality that confines us, is freedom, total freedom, an illusion? On the contrary. The sage would say that it is what we call reality which is the illusion and freedom which is the reality. We are born free and, through our attachments and desires, we create a 'reality' which we then see as a prison. The sage sees through the prison of 'reality' to the freedom that lies within.

So let's by all means salute the freedom that the tricolour represents as it unfurls against the immensity of the sky. And as we do so, let's also salute that infinitely greater freedom that lies both within us and beyond the vastness of the sky.

99 FACTS ABOUT GUYS...

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HERE'S 99 FACTS ABOUT GUYS

1. Guys don’t actually look after good-looking girls. They prefer neat and presentable girls.

2. Guys hate flirts.

3. A guy can like you for a minute, and then forget you afterwards.

4. When a guy says he doesn’t understand you, it simply means you’re not thinking the way he is.

5. “Are you doing something?” or “Have you eaten already?” are the first usual questions a guy asks on the phone just to get out from stammering.

6. Guys may be flirting around all day but before they go to sleep, they always think about the girl they truly care about.

7. When a guy really likes you, he’ll disregard all your bad characteristics.

8. Guys go crazy over a girl’s smile.

9. Guys will do anything just to get the girl’s attention.

10. Guys hate it when you talk about your ex-boyfriend.

11. When guys want to meet your parents. Let them.

12. Guys want to tell you many things but they can’t. And they sure have one habit to gain courage and spirit to tell you many things and it is drinking!

13. Guys cry!!!

14. Don’t provoke the guy to heat up. Believe me. He will.

15. Guys can never dream and hope too much.

16. Guys usually try hard to get the girl who has dumped them, and this makes it harder for them to accept their defeat.

17. When you touch a guy’s heart, there’s no turning back.

18. Giving a guy a hanging message like “You know what? Uh…never mind!” would make him jump to a conclusion that is far from what you are thinking.

19. Guys go crazy when girls touch their hands.

20. Guys are good flatterers when courting but they usually stammer when they talk to a girl they really like.

21. When a guy makes a prolonged “umm” or makes any excuses when you’re asking him to do you a favor, he’s actually saying that he doesn’t like you and he can’t lay down the card for you.

22. When a girl says “no”, a guy hears it as “try again tomorrow.”

23. You have to tell a guy what you really want before he gets the message clearly.

24. Guys hate nice boy!

25. Guys love their moms.

26. A guy would sacrifice his money for lunch just to get you a couple of roses.

27. A guy often thinks about the girl who likes him. But this doesn’t mean that the guy likes her.

28. You can never understand him unless you listen to him.

29. If a guy tells you he loves you once in a lifetime. He does.

30. Beware. Guys can make gossips scatter through half of the face of the earth faster than girls can.

31. Like Eve, girls are guys’ weaknesses.

32. Guys are very open about themselves.

33. Its good to test a guy first before you believe him. But don’t let him wait that long.

34. No guy is bad when he is courting

35. Guys hate it when their clothes get dirty. Even a small dot.

36. Guys really admire girls that they like even if they’re not that much pretty.

37. Your best friend, whom your boyfriend seeks help from about his problems with you may end up being admired by your boyfriend.

38. If a guy tells you about his problems, he just needs someone to listen to him. You don’t need to give advice.

39. A usual act that proves that the guy likes you is when he teases you.

40. A guy finds ways to keep you off from linking with someone else.

41. Guys love girls with brains more than girls in miniskirts.

42. Guys try to find the stuffed toy a girl wants but would unluckily get the wrong one.

43. Guys virtually brag about anything.

44. Guys cannot keep secrets that girls tell them.

45. Guys think too much.

46. Guys’ fantasies are unlimited.

47. Girls’ height doesn’t really matter to a guy but her weight does!

48. Guys tend to get serious with their relationship and become too possessive. So watch out girls!!!

49. When a girl makes the boy suffer during courtship, it would be hard for him to let go of that girl.

50. It’s not easy for a guy to let go of his girlfriend after they broke up especially when they’ve been together for 3 years or more.

51. You have to tell a guy what you really want before getting involved with that guy.

52. A guy has to experience rejection, because if he’s too-good-never-been-busted

, never been in love and hurt, he won’t be matured and grow up.

53. When an unlikable circumstance comes, guys blame themselves a lot more than girls do. They could even hurt themselves physically.

54. Guys have strong passion to change but have weak will power.

55. Guys are tigers in their peer groups but become tamed pussycats with their girlfriends.

56. When a guy pretends to be calm, check if he’s sweating. You’ll probably see that he is nervous.

57. When a guy says he is going crazy about the girl. He really is.

58. When a guy asks you to leave him alone, he’s just actually saying, “Please come and listen to me”

59. Guys don’t really have final decisions.

60. When a guy loves you, bring out the best in him.

61. If a guy starts to talk seriously, listen to him.

62. If a guy has been kept shut or silent, say something.

63. Guys believe that there’s no such thing as love at first sight, but court the girls anyway and then realize at the end that he is wrong.

64. Guys like femininity not feebleness.

65. Guys don’t like girls who punch harder than they do.

66. A guy may instantly know if the girl likes him but can never be sure unless the girl tells him.

67. A guy would waste his time over video games and basketball, the way a girl would do over her romance novels and make-ups.

68. Guys love girls who can cook or bake.

69. Guys like girls who are like their moms. No kidding!

70. A guy has more problems than you can see with your naked eyes.

71. A guy’s friend knows everything about him. Use this to your advantage.

72. Don’t be a snob. Guys may easily give up on the first sign of rejection.

73. Don’t be biased. Try loving a guy without prejudice and you’ll be surprised.

74. Girls who bathe in their eau de perfumes do more repelling than attracting guys.

75. Guys are more talkative than girls are especially when the topic is about girls.

76. Guys don’t comprehend the statement “Get lost” too well.

77. Guys really think that girls are strange and have unpredictable decisions but still love them more.

78. When a guy gives a crooked or pretentious grin at your jokes, he finds them offending and he just tried to be polite.

79. Guys don’t care about how shiny their shoes are unlike girls.

80. Guys tend to generalize about girls but once they get to know them, they’ll realize they’re wrong.

81. Any guy can handle his problems all by his own. He’s just too stubborn to deal with it.

82. Guys find it so objectionable when a girl swears.

83. Guys’ weakest point is at the knee.

84. When a problem arises, a guy usually keeps himself cool but is already thinking of a way out.

85. When a guy is conscious of his looks, it shows he is not good at fixing things.

86. When a guy looks at you, either he’s amazed of you or he’s criticizing you.

87. When you catch him cheating on you and he asks for a second chance, give it to him. But when you catch him again and he asks for another chance, ignore him.

88. If a guy lets you go, he really loves you.

89. If you have a boyfriend, and your boy best friend always glances at you and it obviously shows that he is jealous whenever you’re with your boyfriend, all I can say is your boy best friend loves you more than your boyfriend does.

90. Guys learn from experience not from the romance books that girls read and take as their basis of experience.

91. You can tell if a guy is really hurt or in pain when he cries in front of you!

92. If a guy suddenly asks you for a date, ask him first why.

93. When a guy says he can’t sleep if he doesn’t hear your voice even just for one night, hang up. He also tells that to another girl. He only flatters you and sometimes makes fun of you.

94. You can truly say that a guy has good intentions if you see him praying sometimes.

95. Guys seek for advice not from a guy but from a girl.

96. Girls are allowed to touch boys’ things. Not their hair!

97. If a guy says you’re beautiful, that guy likes you.

98. Guys hate girls who overreact.

99. Guys love you more than you love them if they are serious in your relationships.

THANK YOU FOR READING...♥ ♥ ♥

COURTESY -SAMMI :)

Bhagwad GEETA and PURE LOVE

On the occasion of Shri Krishna JanamAshtami we must talk about GEETA, A Divine Sculpture of LIFE:  
In our relationships we enjoy Love & Affection. But these are the same relationships which give us pain, hurt & at times we feel completely disillusioned. Why it is so that the same person who gives you so much love & affection becomes the cause of hurt & pain? When relationships go wrong, then many times people are so much depressed in all such situations that they feel completely lost and alone in their lives. Why such relationship problems come in our lives? Why our lives are disrupted by our own relations with whom we in the first place received so much Love & Affection?

The answer to all the above questions is that we all are equally Human & equally Divine. Due to our Divine nature we are so lovable & due to our Human nature we fall a prey to ego, mistrust, hatred, jealousy, anger etc. which destroy our relationships. Now let us understand the nature of Love which is always pure & blissful. Each human being whether it's you, your partner or any of your relations, is having a Divine Soul & each one is a part of that Universal Soul - God. Soul is the source of Love in one's heart & it reflects from that person when we are in love. Nature of "Pure Perfect Love" is like the Sun shining in the sky but when this Sun of love in the sky of your heart is clouded by ego, mistrust, hatred, jealousy, anger etc. then our relationships are destroyed.

When we fall in love with someone, we love to be in the company of that person, as bright sunlight of love comes gushing through that person's Soul & we feel blissful. Receiving pure love from another person bestows a great blessing on us. Such a "Perfect Love" lets us realize the goodness & beauty in our Soul nature. Human Soul is beyond the qualities of our personality traits like ego, mistrust, hatred, jealousy, anger etc. that's why our experience of "Pure Perfect Love" is so beautiful. But when our mind is clouded by the negative personality traits, we have the problems in our relations. Same person who seemed so lovable once becomes an object of hatred. Just remember that our body is just a channel through which this radiance of "Pure Love" flows from our Soul in our heart but when it is clouded by our bad personality traits of ego, mistrust, hatred, jealousy, anger etc. in our mind, then all this love is marred.

How to preserve our relationships beautifully?

In our relationships, we continually move between times, when the Sun of "Perfect Love" in the clear sky is shining brightly and the times of dark clouds which cover this Blissful Sun by the negative traits of our human nature. Now as the sky is infinite & the clouds cannot cover the Sun always, same is the case with our relationships that if we move intelligently in our relationships then we can easily cross the times when it is marred by the clouds of ego, mistrust, hatred etc. Whenever, such negative qualities arouse in your relationships, just remember the immortal, loving, blissful qualities of Love that is shining through the Soul of each person in this world. Each human being is Divine in nature at the Soul level. So just ignore the negative traits of a person & Love that person unconditionally; just like a mother Loves her children, ignoring the negative traits & tantrums of her children.

Below are few verses of Bhagwat Gita which tell us that each human being is Divine at the core, as God as the "Super Soul" resides in the heart of all beings, from where fountain of "Perfect Love" springs out in our lives.

"sarvasya chaham hridi sannivisto"
God is seated in everyone’s heart.
"ishvarah sarva-bhutanam
hrd-dese ’rjuna tishthati"
The Supreme God dwells/resides in the hearts of all beings.
Below are some beautiful quotes on Love:

"There is more hunger for Love and Appreciation in this world than for bread." - Mother Teresa

"You, yourself, as much as anybody else in the entire universe, deserve your Love and Affection." - Gautama Buddha

"What most people need to learn in life is how to Love people and use things, instead of using people and Loving things." - Author Unknown
"Love has nothing to do with what you are expecting to get, it's what you are expected to give - which is everything" - Author Unknown